“Many people have a difficult time talking with doctors or nurses.”

Hi, it’s Tommy reporting.

I’d like to report on why communicating with help professionals should be made easier. The relationship between health professionals and patients in the NHS is based on trust and communication. Everyone feels better and more in control when they understand their illness and how and why it’s been treated and every side-effect that may occur.

Many people have a difficult time talking with doctors or nurses. Some still feel uncomfortable asking questions. Some are afraid that if they report too many things their loved one’s treatment may be stopped. You should always be able to approach medical staff with the assumption that they are there to help you and would like to give you the information you need.

Always bring a notebook and write down all the questions you and your loved one want to ask the doctor the next time you visit. People with dementia get flustered, so writing down your questions beforehand is one of the best ways to be sure that you can be as clear as you can. You can also take notes during appointments or ask permission to tape record the visit so you can use it as a reminder at home.

Family carers should help your loved one speak frankly with the help providers, help them to express their feelings and let them know their concerns. Don’t be afraid to ask your healthcare provider to repeat things, anything you or your loved one don’t understand. Repeat it back to them to make sure you’ve got it right. Carers, don’t be afraid to tell the help providers if you feel that your loved one’s needs are not being met. Some people are afraid to ask what they see as stupid questions. This is dementia – there is no such thing as stupid questions.